FLSDA AY is “Lit”

 

 

1st Lithonia AY is Re-Lit

It Only Takes A Spark

You are that Spark

If your name is on the lists below this is my proposal and an invitation to you to join me in being the spark to make FLSDA AY the most “lit” AY it can be (did I use that word “lit” correctly?? )

 


Anyway here is the “re-lit” proposal ...


AYS Reorganization Teams 

Programming Team

  • Latasha Chong
  • Kevin Thorney
  • Kijah Carrington
  • Kim Sandrene Foster
  • Jalen Lawrence
  • Chad Greenidge

Supporting / Advisors Team

  • Tamille Francis
  • An Pham
  • George Barnett
  • Allister Fergusson
  • Walter V Murray (I will assist in coordination once we get the teams finalized)

Responsibilities

Programming Team Responsibilities

  1. Plan 2 AY programs per month – select the topic, format, etc
  2. Plan 1 social event every 2 months
  3. Plan 1 day of spiritual emphasis every 2 months
  4. Create a virtual platform for FLSDA Youth to connect, converse and interact. Use this platform to provide content that would build social, mental, physical and spiritual

Supporting Advisors Responsibilities

  1. Make suggestions to the Reorganization Team
  2. Be a sounding board for Reorganization Team if they have any questions, concerns etc
  3. Handle the administrative roles such as board approvals for certain programs, risk management liaison, budget approvals liaison with Treasurer, etc.

Immediate Goals

  1. 1st Sabbath in Sept is Youth Day – Plan program content for that day

Suggestions for consideration:

  • Sabbath lunch in gym after church
  • Youth platform participants
  • FLSDA Youth speaker or speakers – we have very deep and excellent youth at AY
  • Try to get a speaker or give Pastor Williams a theme/topic and ask him to be the speaker
  • For AY on that daysomesuggestionscouldbe..
    • Invite another AY dept to share AY with us at FLSDA
    • Do a “talent program” to highlight talents of FLSDA youth (eg Jerome, Jalen, etc)

PLEASE INDICATE YOUR WILLINGNESS TO ACCEPT THIS PROPOSAL/INVITATION.

You can even make a conditional acceptance and let us know what your conditions are.

For example, I can accept but i would not be able to be at AY every Sabbath because I have an obligation at another church. OR I can accept but only in a limited capacity because of my busy school/work schedule i can commit 2 hours a month. etc 

Also if you simply cannot make it let us know and continue to suport FLSDA AYS with your prayers. Maybe recommend someone else who maybe open to being part of the team.

Please Accept in the comment box below

PS- your email will not be published and your response will ONLY be viewed by the people on the list above

Ask Me Why Ask Me How

Ask Me Why – Ask Me How !

First Lithonia SDA Youth Talk Back 


You Got Questions?! We Got Answers (maybe !!) 

Ask me Why

 Ask me How? !


I know you have a ton of questions. Not because you don’t know the answers but because sometimes adults just act “kinda” inconsistent and you just need us to clarify why or how we say and do certain things. Especially on issues dealing with life from a Christian perspective !

Bring your questions !

You Have Questions –

We Have Answers –


… even if our answer is “I don’t know” – we will learn together !

Questions Like:


  • How do you deal with someone who is always “dissing” you?
  • Why do you come to church on Saturday?
  • How should I tell someone that I don’t want them hanging out with me anymore?
  • Why should I not have sex before marriage?
  • Why do adults fight among themselves so much?
  • How do I know what God wants me to do with my life?

Join us at First Lithonia SDA – Youth Day –

Talkback Program on August 3rd @ 11 AM


No Such Thing as a “dumb question”.

Ask Us Anything

God Has an Answer for Every Question You Have –

Lets find that answer together !

Can’t stand your boss or co-workers?!! – Ask us how we handled that situation – 


Join us at First Lithonia SDA – Youth Day – Talkback Program on August 3rd @ 11 AM


 

Get honest unscripted answers

Not just a bunch of Bible quoting and Ellen G White quoting responses – 

(Yes – we may use the Bible & our fundamental beliefs in our responses but our response will be from personal relationship with God)

… but real life answers from our personal life experiences with God !

Place: 1st Lithonia SDA Church

Time:  August 3rd – 11 AM 

FLSDA Youth Talkback

 

RSVP in the comment box below

 

Talk Back FLSDA Youth 7-6-19

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Others — Money — God

A Talk Back about Money and God 


 


Money Management in the Bible

Money Management = Make it + Spend It

Making = earning, what you do to earn it, what principles guide you when you decide what to do to earn $? What are some good Biblical principles?

Spending – what you do with it, how, where you spend it. What principles guide you when deciding how to spend $$ ? What are some good Biblical principles

Making it

Gift from God – Duet 8: 18 – But thou shalt remember the Lord thy God; for it is He that giveth thee power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant which He swore unto thy fathers, as it is this day.

The power to make money, not money. God will not do for us what he has empowered us to do. The power company gives you power but you have to turn the light switch on.

Do you know what your power to make money is, how God has gifted you this power?

Do you know how to turn on your “wealth switch”

Wealth = Money?

Spend = use – How do you use $$, What Biblical principle guides our decisions on how we use money?

Parable of the Talents – Matthew 25:14–30 

  1. Growth & investment – does it yield more (key words, v 27 “mine own with ursury”, v30 “unprofitable”
  2. God expects “multiplication” -Be fruitful & multiply – from the beginning
  3. God gives us the seed. Not to eat but to plant, cultivate & grow. Concept of seed money, venture capital. God gives us all seed – which is our “power to get wealth”. In various proportions.

Count the cost of spending a dollar !

The nonmonetary cost – when you spend a dollar it costs you more than a dollar. Count the true cost of every decision, especially your decisions on how to spend/use $$. Luke 14:28.

Every $ you spend has an opportunity cost – cake and eat it concept. If you spend $100 on a pair of sneakers that is $100 you don’t have to spend on something else or maybe spend less on (unless you have limitless $$ !). Count the cost so at least you know the true cost of the $ you spend.

Follow up costs = buy a car, follow-up cost = gas, insurance etc


Spiritual Myths about God & Money

If you are a good Christian God would bless you with money. Some texts that can be misconstrued

      1. Bring ye all the tithe & prove me now herewith …
      2. Prov 10:22 – The blessings of the Lordmaketh rich.
      3. Mathew 6:33 – Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you (referring to material things)
      4. Proverbs 3: 9-10
      5. Deuteronomy 28

The love of money is evil

    1. 1 Timothy 6:10 – often misquoted. Some say money is root of evil, or some say love of money is evil
    2. Money is not evil – if it is a gift from God
  • Loving money can’t be evil if it is a gift from God
  1. But the love of money can be the “root” of evil if it is mis cultivated, misdirected.
  2. What are some ways you can prevent the love of $$ root from bearing evil fruit?


We must be content with whatever we have – content with being broke? Compare to parable of talents- definitely not content

If you have faith you can pray for financial blessings and you will get it.

    1. Wealth or poverty is no indication of your faith
    2. Misused text – faith can move mountains, ask and shall receive, etc

 


What is money?
  • Medium of exchange that we exchange for achieving goals & dreams (not goods & services because the goods & services are the embodiment of our goals & dreams)
  • A tool in God’s tool box that he sometimes uses to help us achieve our goals and dreams

So are there other mediums of exchange or tools that help us get to our dreams and goals? YES

  • Sometimes we pray for financial blessings to reach our goals and God chooses the medium / tool he knows would benefit us most.
  • What are some of these other mediums of exchange / tools?
  • Examples –
    • Moses secured the release of Israelites because God gave favor
      • Personal examples- Mortgage
    • People / relationships
    • Health
    • Ability to be a quick learner

There’s a pretty good chance that if God chooses NOT to give us the medium/tool of money that He has or will give us something just as powerful, beneficial so we can maximize what he created us to be.

Find that thing he has given you!


How do you see God determines how you use money
  • As a good father who knows how to give good gifts. SO if you have been given the power to get wealth then you acknowledge the goodness of your father, Math 7: 11
  • As a harsh task master – servant with 1 talent Luke 25:24
  • As a wise God – who knows whether money is the best tool for us to reach our goals
  • As the ultimate source of good – who doesn’t always need a medium or tool to get you to your dreams and goals

A balanced attitude toward money
  • Remember who’s the boss – Money should work for you harder than you work for money. Learn how to do that.
  • Love money, a healthy love,  because you love the giver of the gift to make money more than you love money.
  • Be fine either way – Paul says, “I have learned that in whatever state I am there with to be content”. Content is not the same as complacent. Philippians 4:11
  • Remember, Money is only useful if spent to benefit others in some form or fashion. People that accumulate $ are not wealthy – Luke 12: 15 – 21, 1 Peter 4: 10
  • The nonmonetary cost – when you spend a dollar it costs you more than a dollar. Count the true cost of every decision, especially your decisions on how to spend/use $$. Luke 14:28.

Every $ you spend has an opportunity cost – cake and eat it concept. If you spend $100 on a pair of sneakers that is $100 you don’t have to spend on something else or maybe spend less on (unless you have limitless $$ !). Count the cost so at least you know the true cost of the $ you spend.

Follow up costs = buy a car, follow-up cost = gas, insurance etc

Bad Attitude towards money

Wrong attitude towards money is the real poverty. If all the money owned by the worlds 100 richest people was taken away from them and spread equally among everyone in the world, chances are that within a few years all that money would be back in their pockets. Because the people who would have received it would probably have a unhealthy attitude towards money and thus be unable to keep it.

Being a millionaire is not in have a million dollars, it is in having a million-dollar attitude about money.  Parable of Prodigal Son – had the wrong attitude towards money and lost it all in short order.

What are some unhealthy destructive attitudes towards money?

    1. Money makes you “the man” – Prodigal son thought that getting his $$ from Dad would make him the man.
    2. Money earns respect – It doesn’t even though in the “world” we attach respect to money. Do you know wealth people who are not respectable? And poor people who you have high respect for?
    3. Lack of money means misery – your happiness should not depend on money. ”- Jay-Z “I have a lot of happiness, but that doesn’t mean that the two (money and happiness) equate to each other…they’re not tied to each other…. Bible Paul I have learned to be content in what ever situation I am in, whether I have a lot or not.

 

Unique challenges

Debt – the millennial generation is the most in -debt

  • Be smart about debt, know what type of debt is good and which is bad
  • HAve a Producer mindset not a debtor mindset – can you make/earn what you need before you borrow it? Applies to more than $$
  • Manage your DTI – Debt to Income Ratio

Lack of planning – because of “the future is so far off” attitude

  • Bible text – Ecclesiastes 11:1 – cast you bread upon the waters and it shall return after many days – Proverbs 6: 8 – The ant stores away food in the summer so it can have food in the harvest time/winte
  •  

Budgeting

    1. Its boring, tedious – the way we’ve been taught
    2. Use broad approach rather than line item.
    3. Broad =
      1. Determined (housing, investing in self)
      2. Variable – necessary but fluctuates – eg utilities, food etc
      3. Discretionary – not necessary but nice to have –
      4. Guiding principles for budgeting – align with God’s expectations and your goals.
      5. Educate yourself – learn from a pro if you must

 

 

 

 

 

 

Life is Too Short to…

Life’s Too Short to be Long …

by W Vernon Murray


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Talking with my daughter on her birthday few days ago she lamented, somewhat facetiously, “I’m already in my late 20’s so I have to be more intentional about life, life is too short not to be intentional”.

So after I got over the “I’m in my late 20’s” thing and reminded her that late twenties is still young especially compared to me in my late fifties, we talked about the awareness that life indeed is short.

It got me thinking, what else is life too short for? My daughter and I agreed that life is too short to not be intentional.

W Vernon Murray

Especially if you are in leadership, a C Level executive or business owner or leader in a NPO, time is a premium asset that we have to maximize and optimize. So here are some other life is too short nuggets:


100 things that Life is too short to do…

Life is too short to …

  1. Play it safe and not pursue my purpose in life
  2. Waste my time trying to prove my worth to haters & naysayers who believe what they wanna believe anyway
  3. Live my life in the shadow of my past mistakes
  4. Live my life in the shadow of other people’s expectations
  5. Believe 3rd party tattle tale about other people
  6. Share my big dreams with small minded people
  7. Let my feelings dictate my drive, direction & destiny
  8. Allow disagreements to devolve into dysfunction
  9. Miss out on opportunities to make an impact
  10. Listen to politicians. They seem to have a twisted version of truth & reality
  11. Not focus on future growth instead of present pleasure
  12. Confuse activity with accomplishment
  13. Confuse doing things with getting things done
  14. Not connect with the Universe by connecting to others
  15. Spend money like it’s going out of style
  16. Care what low achievers have to say about my pursuit of high achievement
  17. Not say what needs to be said in a way that it gets heard
  18. Not seek out advise from high performing people
  19. Sit & Watch millionaire athletes make $$ and get distracted from me from making my $$
  20. Let resentment & unforgiveness live in my heart
  21. Live in irrational fear
  22. Be bored
  23. Be angry at people, even if they deserve my anger & wrath
  24. Complicate the simple and simplify the complicated
  25. Not intentionally love those who I say I love
  26. Drive an old car
  27. Feel sorry for myself
  28. Listen to country music (sorry you country music lovers!!)
  29. Not accept that my truths don’t have to be your truth
  30. Not understand that I could not like what you like, but I can still like you
  31. Not work on love. Love worth keeping is love worth working on to keep
  32. Believe that age is a number. I am as old as I wanna be, mentally
  33. Not be authentic. I am the only original me that there is & will ever be in the history and future of the Universe.
  34. Miss the opportunity to change a single life if even in the smallest of ways
  35. Blame failure on people or circumstances
  36. Try to be like someone else
  37. Not be honest with myself, because I can’t fool me, no matter how hard I try
  38. Try changing people’s opinions without first trying to change their lives
  39. Look for validation from people – the Universe validates me by the opportunities it sends me and the doors it opens for me.
  40. Let a day go by without showing my wife how much I love her
  41. Not show love for the Universe
  42. Live in fantasy land, chasing fantasies instead of goals
  43. Not be intentional about financial fitness
  44. Not know the difference between cowardice, caution and courage
  45. Waste words on deaf ears that won’t listen to wisdom
  46. Talk myself out of pursuing my dreams
  47. Look for the easy road
  48. Jump to conclusions when I could walk to the facts
  49. Believe everything on Facebook, YouTube or Google
  50. Not acknowledge & collaborate with a Higher Power, no matter what I call it.

 

Help me get to 100. What are some other things that life is too short for ??

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Co-author-Contributor

Project:         Contribute to the 2019 edition of Hey Freshman book


MBH Publishing Inc will require the contributing co-author to:

  1. Read the book & add any advice you would give to a freshman.
  2. Total word count = 600-800 spread out over all the chapters. Compensation contribution = $150

MBH Publishing Inc will:

  1. Republish the 2019 edition of the book and list you as a co-author contributor
  2. Create an affiliate web page for you so you can generate income by sharing your page link with friends, family, fellow students etc.
  3. Pay you 65% of any revenue generated via your affiliate web page. Book price = 7.99

Project steps & deadlines

  1. 6/5/2019 – MBH Publishing will send you copy of the manuscript.
  2. 6/20/2019 – Make your contributions in each chapter. Your contributions should be relevant to the topic of that chapter. Insert them anywhere in the chapter they best fit.

    Precede all your insertions/contributions with your name and end with your name.

    If there are some contributions, you would like to make that do not fit with any chapter – make those on a separate page at end of manuscript.

    Total word count for all your contributions should be between 600-800 words.

    Compensation for contributions co-authors is $150 and will be paid when the contributions are reviewed.

  3. 7/1/2019 – MBH will do final edit & compilation. MBH may elect to use all or some of your contributions.
  4. 7/10/2019 – Cover redesign – co-authors/contributors will work together to revise cover design concept. Design work will be contracted out.
  1. 7/15/2019 – submit to press/printing/publication – this would primarily be an eBook
  2. 7/30/2019 – set up affiliate webpages for co-authors & launch the 2019 edition !

 

Agreements:

This agreement is between MBH Publishing Inc / Walter V Murray and _______You________ (co-author contributor).

This agreement is governed by all applicable laws, rules and regulations.

 

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